Good Dads

Columnist Leonard Pitts Jr. grew up with a father he describes as physically present but emotionally absent. In his first book on parenting, Pitts openly chronicles his struggle to come to terms with his alcoholic father and the climate of fear he had created in their home. Pitts challenges all men to resolve the resentment toward their absent or abusive fathers instead of passing it on to the next generation.

There's a passage in Hebrews 12 that applies to all Christians, but it has special relevance to dads. It reads: "Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled" (vv.14-15).

Think of what could happen in our families if we emptied our hearts of bitterness and made peaceful relationships our goal! If we have been blessed with a wise and loving father, we should be grateful and follow his example. But if our father has failed us, we must rely on God's grace, resolve our anger toward him, and strive to be the kind of dad we never had. It won't be easy, but with our heavenly Father as a perfect example, we can learn to be good dads.

 

A faithful father leads by love with tender firmness from above, for he himself has learned from God The lessons of His chastening rod.

A good father reflects the love of the heavenly Father.

Come and see

 “Can anything good from Nazareth?” Philip answered, “Come and see.”  John 1:46

Can anything good come out of Nazareth? Come and see.

See Wilberforce fighting to free slaves in England . . .

Journey into the jungles and hear the drums beating in praise . . .

Venture into the gulags and dungeons of the world and hear the songs of the saved refusing to be silent. Come and see.

Evangelism

"Continuing instant in prayer (Rom. 12:12). The Greek is a metaphor taken from hunting dogs that never give over the game till they have their prey." - Thomas Brooks